Lack of Time to Train your Horse…

Many people struggle with having enough time to exercise their horses. I’have a Facebook support group for Overweight Horses and many people told me that time is their biggest struggle. Also in my other FB group (HippoLogic Clicker Training Horses) people struggle with a lack of time. It’s a common struggle for people and the struggle is real!

Step 1: What is the real problem?

As a clicker coach I notice that everyone has the same amount of time (24 hours in a day), yet some people feel they have never enough.

Therefor I don’t ‘time’ is the real problem: everyone has it, but it’s how we prioritize our tasks Or do we have enough clarity about what we can do in a certain amount of time? When we have clarity about the steps we need to take, we often also have a better idea of time.

Are you dedicating much of your time to other people’s priorities (e.g. doing chores at the barn and doing them better than anyone else)?

Sometimes horse people use ‘time’ when they are at a dead point (plateau) in their training… When you’re stuck and don’t get the results you want, your brain can take over and steer you in another direction: “This (other thing) is really important!” , so you won’t be confronted with the issue of feeling like a failure (your brain hates that and is trying to avoid that at all costs. So instead of solving the problem, your brains solves it by redirecting your attention).

Have you ever come home from the barn, only to realize that you’ve been chatting the whole time or doing chores instead of the reason you came to the barn (enjoying and interacting with your horse)?

When you are stuck about getting more forward movement or better quality movement (your horse needs to carry himself more) and you don’t know ‘how’ to do this with positive reinforcement, it can happen that you get distracted.

I struggled many years with consistently scheduling to exercise Kyra. I didn’t really know how to turn her into a willing Go-Horse. Until… she got laminitis and was diagnosed with EMS (Equine Metabolic Syndrome). Suddenly I had 3 hours a day and 7 days a week to take care of her (my priorities shifted 180º: from “I have to do something, but I don’t know how….” to : “I HAVE to get her in shape and get her healthy again! I need to take action. NOW!”)

Another reason that can feel like a lack of time is a lack of motivation. When you would have an accountability partner, a friend who helps you exercise your horse it would be way easier, wouldn’t it? Having someone to share your struggles and wins with and discuss your approach is so incredible motivating! If this is what you need, come talk to me.

Fear is another reason that often holds equestrians back from their dreams. When I was a horseback riding instructor and worked with fearful riders, I heard all the excuses in the book why they hadn’t ridden their horse. A lot of them used ‘the lack of time’ excuse. Once they overcame their fear of being in the saddle, those excuses simply evaporated. Time wasn’t really the issue, as it is often not the real reason. It’s often a deeper lying reason…

Step 2: Be honest

What is really holding you back from exercising your horse?

If it’s really is time, maybe it’s time to consider another person for your horse… Unless your horse and your wallet don’t suffer from you not enjoying your horse to the fullest?
If time would be the real reason it’s would be the easiest to solve: Simply hire a trainer or find a leaser to help you exercise your horse.

If you have a hard time doing that ask yourself:
What’s your struggle really about?

Is it:

• Time
• Prioritizing important tasks (I can imagine that Health for your horse,is pretty high on your list)
• Support or lack of motivation (exercising your horse feels hard and an ‘endless task’ rather than something you can both enjoy and look forward to)
• Knowledge (you can benefit from a step-by-step shaping plan how to go about teaching your horse to offer movement with R+ or you could use a clear schedule or training plan to get to your exercise goals for your horse)
• Not having as much fun (you dread going to the barn because the path to get your horse in shape or recover from laminitis is taking all energy out of you. You’re stressed about it and it’s hard to turn it into a fun endeavor)
• Fear (from fear for your horse to the fear of ‘messing your horse up with (positive) reinforcement training/treats, doing it wrong, fear of failing in the end/not reaching your the health goals for your horse and so on. Very common and not many people talk about this!)

Just some things to ponder about… When you find the underlying reason the good news is: you can do something about it! Imagine your horse being in perfect health and shape….

Step 3

Find support to overcome the thing that you’re really struggling with!
Participating in an online course with a coaching part, finding a clicker (exercise) challenge, a coach or friend who can help you. It all helps! You can also join my Facebook groups: Clicker Training or R+ Exercising Overweight/Laminitis horses

5 Tips that can help you

1. Find a friend that has a similar or the same goal with her horse. Support each other
2. Find someone online and set dates for the next 4 weeks exercising or clicker training your horse
3. Make your own schedule for the next 4 weeks and check off each day on your calendar that you did it! Cleebrate with a friend at the end of 4 weeks. Rinse and repeat
4. Find a coach to help you take your training to the next level
5. Join the HippoLogic Clicker Training Academy

Compassionate horse owner

Are you a compassionate horse owner who wants to build a strong friendship with your horse? Would you like to understand your horse better and help your horse to understand YOU better? Get access to high quality online training and a fabulous, supportive R+ community in our HippoLogic Clicker Training Academy. Check out the link!

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In 2024 the focus besides giving you a solid foundation is R+ Movement Training: Exercise your horse with positive reinforcement and transform your WHOA-horse into a GO-horse or get your Fat Horse Fit in a Few Months. Like all good things, learning a skill takes time. Therefore you’ll get one year personal support in the HippoLogic Academy.
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Happy Horse training!
Sandra Poppema, B.Sc., founder of HippoLogic & HippoLogic Clicker Training Academy

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