Often when I watch people ride I see struggle. I see a lot of frustration and it seems so difficult to learn how to ride. Truth is, that is is in the way riding is taught (in general), but it doesn’t have to be like this. Riding and learning to ride can be relatively easy and effortlessly if only these prerequisites were met. Riding certainly doesn’t have to be a struggle what it seem to be for most riders.
5 Things I would like to see more of in today’s riding lessons are:
- Independent seat
- Facts about horse behaviour
- Positive reinforcement
- Attention for the horses emotions
Facts about horse behaviour
If you are a horse behaviourist and you’re watching a riding lesson you hear a lot of nonsense about horse behaviour being taught to riders. I wish all instructors had to write at least one paper about natural horse behaviour before they are allowed to teach.
Most famous ones are the ‘be the leader’-myth and the ‘don’t let him win’-myth that refer to the idea of one alpha horse that makes all the decisions and is the dominant horse of the herd. There is no such thing in a herd. Yes, horses can behave dominant in certain situations, but decisions when to move and were to go are more based on a (part of the) group decision.
Instructors make riders believe that they have to ‘dominate’ the horse all the time. How? By being dominant in a way people are by using pain inflicting methods such as kicking the horse forward or using whips and spurs to make the horse obey. It just breaks my heart…
This is not only cruel to the horse but it is unnecessary too. I also think that most riders (who start riding because they love horses) are made insecure by behaving ‘dominant’. Horse lovers want to bond and connect with their horses.
The good news is: you can develop a friendship and still ride your horse safely. Horse lovers don’t like to inflict pain to horses, but they do so because they are taught to by the instructor, so they are acting against their own gut feeling. That’s never a good feeling.
Horses are highly social animals
The reason horses could be domesticated in the first place is because of their social structure. They depend on their herd members for survival and they are ‘hard-wired’ to work together.
If a horse doesn’t follow a cue there is always a reason:
- They don’t understand the cue. All riders are different and not all riders give the exact same cues all the time.
- Something else (danger or getting out of sight of a herd member) has a higher priority. They can simply have missed your cue because of that.
- The behaviour has not been reinforced enough (they lack motivation) or
- other behaviour is more reinforcing
- The are physically unable (anymore). Maybe they have pain or are tired.
Horses don’t think in ‘winning or losing’ they act on ‘surviving or getting killed’. They spook because they are afraid, not because they are ‘out to get you’ or ‘want to avoid work’ or ‘are acting out’.
I wish riding instructors would explain more about the natural behaviour based on facts/scientific research to their students and not on century old hear-say.
Horses don’t have to be dominated in order to let them cooperate, they will cooperate freely if they benefit from it. Thankfully more and more people discover the power of the use of positive reinforcement training: it works extremely well and it gives the trainer a good feeling too.
More about positive reinforcement in the next article.
What myths have you heard in riding lessons that you wish are not being taught to riders? Please share.
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